19Sep
Having sex with one spouse while watching other
Question
Response
Praise be to Allah.
Praise be to Allaah.
Having sex with one wife within the existence associated with other and where she will see is one thing concerning which there ought to be no dispute it is haraam.
1 – al-Hasan al-Basri said: They – meaning the Sahaabah and senior Taabi’een – utilized to regard wajs as makrooh, which means that having sex with one once the other can hear the sounds. The word “makrooh” based on the previously scholars means it is haraam.
Narrated by Ibn Abi Shaybah in al-Musannaf, 4/388
2 – Ibn Qudaamah (may Allaah have mercy on him) stated: If two spouses consent to live together in one single household, that is permissible, simply because they each have actually the best to their particular household, nevertheless they may give that right up. Similarly they may accept let him rest among them in one single sleep. But when they consent to allow him have sex with one of them as soon as the other a person is searching, that isn't permissible, since it is vile and despicable and it is perhaps not appropriate, plus it will not be permissible regardless if they consent to it.
3 – al-Hajaawi the writer of Zaad al-Mustanqi’ said: It is makrooh to possess sexual intercourse where anybody can see.
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen commented on these expressed words by saying:
It is extremely strange as makrooh that he limited himself to describing it. This covers two dilemmas. The foremost is having sex where the awrahs of both lovers is visible. Truly restricting yourself to stating that this really is makrooh is a blunder, since it is obligatory to pay for the ‘awrah. This is undoubtedly haraam, and what this author says is not correct at all if it is in a place where anyone can see their‘awrahs. readmore